How does she feel about the nickname,Octomom? Nadya pictured here at home with six of her eight babies, says she couldn't care less what people choose to call her."If it's fun to label me --then label me."
To Nayda, the root of the problem is an outdated value system that's turning people against her."I'm not stereotypical of what a woman should be.You're supposed to want a mate, you get in a relationship, you fall in love (I don't) and have a family. But with me, it's not even like the cart before the horse! So I have completely contradicted the norms of our society, and people are judging and condemning me for that."
Is there a solution?" People need to be less quick to judge others," she says. "Choose and adopt a positive attitude. I'm choosing to have a positive attitude, and I don't care what anyone says."
My take on this : Nadya says,"you should think and choose your words wisely."
Well then; people are outraged because they have to take care of you,the nannies, food,house,clothing,etc. They have to work to support you,they also think you are playing "baby mama" for all it's worth, soaking up the attention and exploiting your babies for money..hmmmmm.But hey that's just me.The saga continues:
Hi Nee...I'm so sorry.I tried to make the picture look better and I lost it in cyberspace.I went all over the internet,trying to find that damn picture and could not find one copy.So I had to use some other photos and take the babies names out of your post.....Again, I appologize
ReplyDeleteI love it,you made it much better,I got my picture out of People's magazine..but i like this one better..you are a jewel.
ReplyDeleteNo need to apologize,I'm glad you fixed it for me...LUV...PIC...Nee
(GIGGLES)
PIC, I have a lot of nerve,never in this world would I exposed my body in that fashion.(GIGGLES) It's good to know I am not the only one that throw stuff into cyberspace,it sure made my post better..I just love you little angel/genie/devil..hahaha
ReplyDeleteI just spent two hours getting some music for the blog and I think I lost it all in cyber space.....ARGGGHHHH!
ReplyDeleteJust a word and a smile to see how everyone is doing,things are going so-so hear,nothing to brag about,at least it's not raining at the moment,just hot as hell.
ReplyDeleteHow is Nana ? I know Brian and Maxy is great.
Everyone here is just lying around waiting on the weekend.
Oh my I hope what I got is not catching,throwing shit away..hahaha
ReplyDeleteI guess it was contagious ...thanks
ReplyDeleteAll that time wasted.I feel like throwing something
ReplyDeleteWell I'm not doing another post today for the fucking blog.The fucking blog can go fuck itself until it gives me back my music.
ReplyDeleteSo how are you Nee?
Go kiss Brian ,get a cup of tea and you will laugh about throwing it away.
ReplyDeleteI really like what you did to the post.How do you get your pictures so glossy? I try and polish all the color off them.hahaha
I guess I don't sound like your nice little Canadian friend who loves kids and dogs......HA!
ReplyDeleteI am great...I have a post in draft about Mel,I know you were going to be busy,don't worry about a post.
ReplyDeleteI transfer my pictures straight from a website on the internet to our blog,usually from a news website or a celebrity website.Gil could show you how to do it or your computer teacher.
ReplyDeleteoh yes you do,I like that,when something go wrong just spit it out,less stress,you will always be my nice little Canadian,thats not scared to say whats on her mind.
ReplyDeleteJust don't throw the mouse.
I will ask him,the PC teacher I will start next week..I was scanning them to my pictures,when I make a post I co to my computer,Gil says I need mine because this one is old..I think I have vista..
ReplyDeleteThis has been a nasty day in every way.It thundered and poured all day.I spent the day cleaning even though I don't feel well.Does anyone thank me for cleaning their toilets? NO!Or doing their laundry NO!Then I cooked them a lovely dinner A thankyou? NO! Normally that doesn't bother me,but some appreciation today would have been nice.
ReplyDeleteSo, I was thinking,maybe I'll treat myself tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteGet a pedicure and buy some fancy sandals.I appreciate me.
ReplyDeleteTreat yourself sweetie you have earn it.I wish I was there.
ReplyDeleteWith you not feeling well and the weather nasty,will put you in a foul mood,they really care.Yake you a Jeannie day, I takes me a NEE day and just see about my babies .
ReplyDeleteI got it back.God I am clever.It's the old music post with some new songs added.
ReplyDeleteI know you like things in order,I also know your home is in order,you have so much on your plate,I just wish I lived close by.
ReplyDeleteIt takes a long time to find a good song with good sound and a decent video to go with it.Then ou have to copy and paste them all.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your Reach for the stars post and the legend of the Spanish moss is charming.
ReplyDeleteOh goodie-that's great. Did you find any of my stuff out there?
ReplyDelete(GIGGLES)
It would be wonderful if you lived closer.We'd never stop gossiping and I sure would enjoy your babies.
ReplyDeleteI think you..I like the addition on the end ,you do know a lot about Louisiana's history.hahah
ReplyDeleteWe're a strange lot,very independent,all of us.We don't ask for help.I hate doing that.Brian won't ask for help even though he has a weak heart and can't do certain things.Must be a British thing,because my parents were exactly like that too.
ReplyDeleteGilly is so bad he stinks ,thanks to his sister and Sharon.
ReplyDeleteI knew why you had parishes there so I added my two cents at the bottom.I love the way louisianians hang on to old customs.
ReplyDeleteSorry I spelled Louisianans wrong.Don't want to offend anyone.
ReplyDeleteI think everyone in your family is stong people,not a poor me baby,they know others are not well and don't want to burden them,but it do make you angry.
ReplyDeleteThere is still a lot of French and Spanish influence there.I found your family history fascinating.I wish you could trace it back farther.
ReplyDeleteMay I ask why Gilly stinks?
ReplyDeleteI bet he's a cute little stinker.
ReplyDeleteHell half of us don't know how to spell Louisiana,or say New OrleansShit you won't offend anyone,they will just think you are one of us...we have a lot of celebrities from here,the most famous one is O.J. Simspon,the killer-diller,and his lawyer Johnny Cockern.
ReplyDeleteI think we have some more stuff,Josie sea captain was name Charles Tousaint..
ReplyDeleteGilly know how to hide and I look for him he was under the bed sleep where Jill put him,she can tell him to do something and he will.
I will be able to start getting my stuff soon.
ReplyDeleteThat is so cute.I bet he's adorable.
ReplyDeleteI would love to know more about the year you were silent. what were you thinking, and what you were going through.It would make a great post.
He wasn't really under the bed completely,she hid him next to the wall,she keeps an eye on him.
ReplyDeleteI had to stop her today,she tied into Susan's grand daughter for pushing him down.
That would be a human interest story that would make all moms cry.
ReplyDeleteI think I will write about it during the weekend,while the Major's story is running,since talking with you about it,I am remembering a lot of things..
ReplyDeleteI have a special baby picture of Gilly I want you to have.
When the moms stop crying ,they will say lets go get her and wash her mouth out.hahaha
ReplyDeleteWhen I am in mixed company I don't talk naughty.
I just ckeck the music,I will be listening.
ReplyDeletei think People like the music
ReplyDeleteYou want to go to reach for the stars?
ReplyDeleteThey really do.
ReplyDeleteI feel so sorry for the lost little girl you were when your mom died.I can't think of anything worse for a little kid.
ReplyDeleteBut just look how everything turned out.You couldn't be better now.
Yes I love your thoughts on that.Lets go
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