Peyton Kane," Seduce and Conquer "
'The Secrets To Attracting, Meeting And Dating Great Men'
Mr Kane is a self styled expert on this subject and has written extensively about it.You may or may not agree with his views but they are interesting. Take it all with a pinch of salt. He claims he can teach you his "Seduce and Conquer" methods.
# 1: Appeal To His Sense Of Sight
Ladies, Rule # 1... To become the ultimate object of every man’s desire, you have to learn how to appeal to his senses. Men are all about visuals. They all want a girl who is visually stimulating and dresses sexy. You need to learn how to dress for success. Seduction is not about being good looking, it's all about looking good! Men are not attracted to the way a woman looks, they're all attracted to the way a woman dresses.
Men are driven by 2 key aspects in their pursuit for a mate: Sexuality and Sensuality. We are all attracted to women who dress sexy, are feminine, act sensual, have confidence and a very positive attitude. All guys want a woman who looks good. The way you dress, screams confidence and screams attitude. It is the best way to initially capture his attention and drive him crazy! To understand the male psyche, you need learn what men really want.
Men are all attracted to 3 qualities about a woman:
1) The way a woman dresses
2) The way she talks
3) The way she behaves
# 2: Seduce Him Mentally
Ladies, please understand that Seduction is a mental process. Not a physical one. You seduce him mentally by the way you talk, act and behave. Remember men are driven by sexuality and sensuality. It's 90% mental and only 10% physical. The only reason why you need to look good is that men won’t respond to you if they don’t feel attraction towards you. BUT Even if they don’t initially feel a physical attraction, the way you talk, flirt, tease, and behave WILL create a powerful physical attraction toward you.
Have you ever met a guy who wasn’t very good looking but when he started to talk to you he all of a sudden became good looking? Better yet, have you ever met a girl whom you did not think was attractive at all, yet all the guys were always all over her? This is not a coincidence ladies. This is how seduction works! Seduction is a mental process not a physical one. Seduce him physically and he will be yours for 1 night. Seduce him mentally and he will be yours forever!
# 3: Give Him A Challenge
So many women are doing great with guys when all of a sudden, he leaves to pursue someone else. So many women make the mistake of coming on to him way too much or way too strong. They pay guys compliments and begin to pursue them. A man will lose interest in you if he realizes that he can have you. Please understand Ladies, Men do not want you to want them and they don’t want it when its too easy. Quality men want a challenge. They want to be intrigued when they first meet you, they want to be kept on the edge of their seats, they want a challenge.
WHY? Because men live for the thrill of the chase. The second we know we can have you, we will toss you aside or place you on hold and pursue another woman. We will only come back to you if we got rejected by the other woman and only to please our own selfish needs. Don’t let this ever happen to you again! Give him a challenge when you meet him. Tease him, pick on him, reject him, send him mixed signals and he will be crazy about you.
# 4: Learn How To Play The Game
Do you remember the last time a guy was overly pursuing you? He was all over you, complimenting you, wanting you, desiring you. How did it make you feel? Exactly, you felt no attraction toward him because you knew you could have him whenever you wanted. Men behave the exact same way. Human beings are pre wired to want what they can not have.
When you want them, they do not want you. When you DON’T want them, then they want you. This is the game! You need to learn how to play the game.
# 5: Do Not Tell Him How You Feel Too Soon
Timing is everything when it comes to seduction ladies. You must not tell guys or show them how you feel about them when you first meet them and you must not tell him how you feel about him too soon in the relationship. You have to learn what men want and how to give it to them gradually so they don’t lose interest in you because remember... guys LOVE to chase!
How Do I Do That?
- Do not come on to him
- Do not give him any compliments
- Do not tell him how you feel
- Do not act nervous when you are speaking to him
- Do not let him know where you stand
- Do not let him know what your intentions are
- Do not let him know that you are interested
# 6: Do Not Give Out Your Phone Number Too Soon
So many women are doing so well. Then he asks for her phone number and they make the HUGE mistake of giving it to him way too soon. Remember, guys love a challenge and they will do whatever it takes to get your phone number because 1) you are seducing him correctly. Making him work for it. 2) they have big ego's.
How many times have you given out your number and he hasn't called? Next time he asks for your number say things like "maybe" or "we'll see". Play with his mind. Let him want and desire you so he pursues you. That's how you create a powerful attraction with every man you meet. And, set yourself apart from the other girls. Say things like" I don't subscribe to the 3 day rule. If you want to go out with me, you call me tomorrow. I'm not like other girls.."
Men love powerful and confident women who they can't take advantage of and walk all over. And, saying simple, little things like that make you stand out above the other girls.
Who do you think he will call? The girl who gave him her phone number right away or the girl who made him work for it?
# 7: Identify And Wash The Bad Apples
Ladies, in order to find the right man and to have a lasting relationship, you need to identify and wash the bad apples. So many guys are looking for the right women to have a relationship with but have been so hurt or scorned in the past by other women that they have put up a wall up and decided to stay away from commitment. Or, they are afraid of commitment because they have been forced into it time and time again. These are usually the types of guys most women are attracted to because of the way they behave. But never fear, ALL these 'bad apples' can be washed and converted into great boyfriends.
There are 4 types of guys: 1) The insecure "nerdy guy" 2) The "nice or shy guy" 3) The cool, confident guy 4) The confident, cocky player! Most women are attracted to 3 and 4.
# 8: Do Not Sleep With Him Too Soon
This is one of the biggest mistakes women make with men. Do not sleep with him too soon after meeting him. You must make him wait at least 4-6 weeks before you have sex. Men judge women by their interaction with you. If you sleep with him on the first date, he will assume you sleep with all guys on the first date and will categorize you as a ‘ho’ or a booty call. He will not want to get into a serious relationship with you and will not respect you if he thinks of you as a ‘ho’. You have to learn how to give him a little bit of you each time you see him so he has something to look forward to or else he will lose interest in you. Men like to get excited when it comes to seeing the women they date. If you give him too much too soon, he will have nothing to look forward too. But give him just enough and do it the right way and he will not be able to get you out of his head!
# 9: Be Enthusiastic And Exciting In The Bedroom
Ladies, guys love women who are very enthusiastic and exciting in the bedroom. Remember, men love confident women and they're all driven by sexuality and sensuality. A shy girl in the bedroom or during intimacy is a big turn off to most men. That's why guys love to pursue promiscuous girls. Because they think 'wow, she would be amazing in bed'. Now, that doesn't mean you have to sleep with him right away. On the contrary, it means he will have so much to look forward to and will actually wait to sleep with you, inadvertently falling in love with you in the process. If you want to wrap him around your finger and get him to want to see you over and over again, AND make sure he doesn't go elsewhere, you must give him that excitement he so desperately seeks in a mate.
Simply put ladies, men want a woman who is a lady on the streets and freak in the sheets. I know you don't want hear this but guys love girls who are slutty and uninhibited in the bedroom. Now, most women are not porn stars and it doesn't matter if you are not great in bed or do not give amazing oral sex. All that matters is that you have a positive attitude, have a lot of enthusiasm and are very excited in the bedroom and about pleasing your man. Guys love it so much when women initiate the action. They also love it when you encourage them and tell them what you like and how much you are enjoying it.
# 1: Appeal To His Sense Of Sight
Ladies, Rule # 1... To become the ultimate object of every man’s desire, you have to learn how to appeal to his senses. Men are all about visuals. They all want a girl who is visually stimulating and dresses sexy. You need to learn how to dress for success. Seduction is not about being good looking, it's all about looking good! Men are not attracted to the way a woman looks, they're all attracted to the way a woman dresses.
Men are driven by 2 key aspects in their pursuit for a mate: Sexuality and Sensuality. We are all attracted to women who dress sexy, are feminine, act sensual, have confidence and a very positive attitude. All guys want a woman who looks good. The way you dress, screams confidence and screams attitude. It is the best way to initially capture his attention and drive him crazy! To understand the male psyche, you need learn what men really want.
Men are all attracted to 3 qualities about a woman:
1) The way a woman dresses
2) The way she talks
3) The way she behaves
# 2: Seduce Him Mentally
Ladies, please understand that Seduction is a mental process. Not a physical one. You seduce him mentally by the way you talk, act and behave. Remember men are driven by sexuality and sensuality. It's 90% mental and only 10% physical. The only reason why you need to look good is that men won’t respond to you if they don’t feel attraction towards you. BUT Even if they don’t initially feel a physical attraction, the way you talk, flirt, tease, and behave WILL create a powerful physical attraction toward you.
Have you ever met a guy who wasn’t very good looking but when he started to talk to you he all of a sudden became good looking? Better yet, have you ever met a girl whom you did not think was attractive at all, yet all the guys were always all over her? This is not a coincidence ladies. This is how seduction works! Seduction is a mental process not a physical one. Seduce him physically and he will be yours for 1 night. Seduce him mentally and he will be yours forever!
# 3: Give Him A Challenge
So many women are doing great with guys when all of a sudden, he leaves to pursue someone else. So many women make the mistake of coming on to him way too much or way too strong. They pay guys compliments and begin to pursue them. A man will lose interest in you if he realizes that he can have you. Please understand Ladies, Men do not want you to want them and they don’t want it when its too easy. Quality men want a challenge. They want to be intrigued when they first meet you, they want to be kept on the edge of their seats, they want a challenge.
WHY? Because men live for the thrill of the chase. The second we know we can have you, we will toss you aside or place you on hold and pursue another woman. We will only come back to you if we got rejected by the other woman and only to please our own selfish needs. Don’t let this ever happen to you again! Give him a challenge when you meet him. Tease him, pick on him, reject him, send him mixed signals and he will be crazy about you.
# 4: Learn How To Play The Game
Do you remember the last time a guy was overly pursuing you? He was all over you, complimenting you, wanting you, desiring you. How did it make you feel? Exactly, you felt no attraction toward him because you knew you could have him whenever you wanted. Men behave the exact same way. Human beings are pre wired to want what they can not have.
When you want them, they do not want you. When you DON’T want them, then they want you. This is the game! You need to learn how to play the game.
# 5: Do Not Tell Him How You Feel Too Soon
Timing is everything when it comes to seduction ladies. You must not tell guys or show them how you feel about them when you first meet them and you must not tell him how you feel about him too soon in the relationship. You have to learn what men want and how to give it to them gradually so they don’t lose interest in you because remember... guys LOVE to chase!
How Do I Do That?
- Do not come on to him
- Do not give him any compliments
- Do not tell him how you feel
- Do not act nervous when you are speaking to him
- Do not let him know where you stand
- Do not let him know what your intentions are
- Do not let him know that you are interested
# 6: Do Not Give Out Your Phone Number Too Soon
So many women are doing so well. Then he asks for her phone number and they make the HUGE mistake of giving it to him way too soon. Remember, guys love a challenge and they will do whatever it takes to get your phone number because 1) you are seducing him correctly. Making him work for it. 2) they have big ego's.
How many times have you given out your number and he hasn't called? Next time he asks for your number say things like "maybe" or "we'll see". Play with his mind. Let him want and desire you so he pursues you. That's how you create a powerful attraction with every man you meet. And, set yourself apart from the other girls. Say things like" I don't subscribe to the 3 day rule. If you want to go out with me, you call me tomorrow. I'm not like other girls.."
Men love powerful and confident women who they can't take advantage of and walk all over. And, saying simple, little things like that make you stand out above the other girls.
Who do you think he will call? The girl who gave him her phone number right away or the girl who made him work for it?
# 7: Identify And Wash The Bad Apples
Ladies, in order to find the right man and to have a lasting relationship, you need to identify and wash the bad apples. So many guys are looking for the right women to have a relationship with but have been so hurt or scorned in the past by other women that they have put up a wall up and decided to stay away from commitment. Or, they are afraid of commitment because they have been forced into it time and time again. These are usually the types of guys most women are attracted to because of the way they behave. But never fear, ALL these 'bad apples' can be washed and converted into great boyfriends.
There are 4 types of guys: 1) The insecure "nerdy guy" 2) The "nice or shy guy" 3) The cool, confident guy 4) The confident, cocky player! Most women are attracted to 3 and 4.
# 8: Do Not Sleep With Him Too Soon
This is one of the biggest mistakes women make with men. Do not sleep with him too soon after meeting him. You must make him wait at least 4-6 weeks before you have sex. Men judge women by their interaction with you. If you sleep with him on the first date, he will assume you sleep with all guys on the first date and will categorize you as a ‘ho’ or a booty call. He will not want to get into a serious relationship with you and will not respect you if he thinks of you as a ‘ho’. You have to learn how to give him a little bit of you each time you see him so he has something to look forward to or else he will lose interest in you. Men like to get excited when it comes to seeing the women they date. If you give him too much too soon, he will have nothing to look forward too. But give him just enough and do it the right way and he will not be able to get you out of his head!
# 9: Be Enthusiastic And Exciting In The Bedroom
Ladies, guys love women who are very enthusiastic and exciting in the bedroom. Remember, men love confident women and they're all driven by sexuality and sensuality. A shy girl in the bedroom or during intimacy is a big turn off to most men. That's why guys love to pursue promiscuous girls. Because they think 'wow, she would be amazing in bed'. Now, that doesn't mean you have to sleep with him right away. On the contrary, it means he will have so much to look forward to and will actually wait to sleep with you, inadvertently falling in love with you in the process. If you want to wrap him around your finger and get him to want to see you over and over again, AND make sure he doesn't go elsewhere, you must give him that excitement he so desperately seeks in a mate.
Simply put ladies, men want a woman who is a lady on the streets and freak in the sheets. I know you don't want hear this but guys love girls who are slutty and uninhibited in the bedroom. Now, most women are not porn stars and it doesn't matter if you are not great in bed or do not give amazing oral sex. All that matters is that you have a positive attitude, have a lot of enthusiasm and are very excited in the bedroom and about pleasing your man. Guys love it so much when women initiate the action. They also love it when you encourage them and tell them what you like and how much you are enjoying it.
'Best of Luck'
Hi PIC
ReplyDeleteHope you got my note, on the post catfight of the year.
Jusr excuce myself to go to the reat-room/
Hope you are felling better. This looks like an all-nighter, but they are nice and good friends,
Miss you a lot...
I think this guy got it right.
I will see you tomorrow.
NEE
That was great. Excellent article. I agree cupcake, this guy got it right!
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