When something wonderful happens to us,it may not seem real until we can tell friends about it.Their happiness for us deepens and intensifies our pleasure.
When something bad happens to us,we search out our friends for comfort...understanding and assurance.Their sympathy eases our pain and gives us hope....Knowing how much friendship means to us.How can we be better friends to others in their times of prosperity and adversity?
I will be the best friend I can be to the people who brings so much joy into my life...I will say "I love you" at least once a day...and I'll mean it.
Spirituality,I will be open to experiences with other people and nature each day,recognizing the miracle of life and my place in it.I will offer kind words to others as often as I can.I refused to become annoyed today,I will look for the humor in whatever it is that is threatening to irritate me.(GIGGLES)
Now on a lighter note.....I have notice we have some visitors that visit about the same time each day/night.....we have put the gossip pot and cups out,so drop in take a seat , we love hearing from our "Fans/Visitors....if you have something funny that happen ..share with us........ we will definitely talk about it...... But hey that's just me.....
Very nice post.Lots of good vibes.
ReplyDeleteKeep spreading the good word,Nee.
The twins were amazing.The kids all put on quite a show,demonstrations,mock fights.
Took Nana shopping.She wasn't too nasty till we got home.
I hope the hair remedies help.A doctor might suggest Rogaine or a similar product,especially if you start losing hair.It's expensive and as soon as you stop using it you lose all the hair again.It's only a band-aid.Better to find out what the problems are and fix them from the inside in a healthy way.
ReplyDeleteI know you always enjoy the twins.
ReplyDeleteNana reminds me of My brother's granddaughter...real good until she get what she wants...you go Nana ...keeping them on their toes. (GIGGLES)
Nana is a jewel.Life would be dull without her.The boys were very proud of themselves.
ReplyDeleteI know a lot of people that have use Rogaine and Nu Grow...they was not impress...Sis left you a thank you on hair -growth...they are excited.
ReplyDeleteWasted a lot of time today trying to find an appropriate gift for my friend' anniversary party tomorrow.Couldn't come up with anything,bought them a plant.I'm no good at such things.
ReplyDeleteI got sis's message.I just hope some of it works for her.
ReplyDeleteI pretend I am giving a speech at the civic center or some organization ,I will keep plucking away until I find my niche....just following my mentor's advice.
ReplyDeleteA good choice...I always injoy getting plants/flowers.
ReplyDeleteThe twins should be proud,they did well...don't you think it's great when kids do their best...if more parents just take the time with their kids,there would not be so much crime.
Good method.Writing always came naturally to me.Talking to people face to face is harder for me.I'm a bit shy.
ReplyDeleteShit she says it is cheaper than the stuff you buy off the shelf and it don't work...at least this is also good for your body,she has the recipes for the wrinkles...
ReplyDeleteWhen I have to speak I just pretend everyone is naked..(GIGGLES) "Flop...flop...flop haha
ReplyDeleteJaye and Peter are very good parents.Much better than I was.I was an only child who was somewhat neglected and who never got much affection.So,I had no idea how to raise children or how to show them love.It took me half my life just to learn that.
ReplyDeleteThat works.When Brian was scared of an interview once,I told him to picture the guy on the toilet,taking a dump.He tried that and he said it was fantastic how well that worked.It brought the guy down to a more human level.
ReplyDeleteIs Brian excited about the twins BD party...are you still makig chili?I know Nana is going to enjoy the twins,she alwaws do...I am glad Nana is in good spirits.
ReplyDeleteSweetie ..don't you dare put yourself down...they had an ass-ho;e for a dad..you had to fend for yourself/children..so you did alright until you open up,now you are a great mom and everything else roll up in one...see you turn out all right.Where do you think Jaye got it from..huh...just pull it out the air...we both was lost at one time...I just didn't have kids....
ReplyDeleteNana is in great spirits.She has a deep pool of mean she can draw on at any given moment.Brian is excited about giving the big boys the cars.
ReplyDeleteI still feel sorry for that sad little girl who didn't speak for a year.You healed yourself without any help from anyone.
ReplyDeleteAnd shut up about the flop...flop
Spring sure is taking it's time to warm up.Nothing is growing yet.It has to hit about 17degrees centigrade or 70 degees F.in your country before everything turns green.
ReplyDeleteI tell you what we are looking forward to, getting the boat ready for the summer.We have a little love nest built into the cabin.Stay away when the boat starts rocking.
ReplyDeleteThat's what makes you so special...your shyness...just ask the ever-ready man .hahaha
ReplyDeletePeople says I was dreaming when I told daddy that mama voice came to me on the wings of the wind,she said everything was fine and she would be to get me when it's time,tell my daddy...
ReplyDeleteWe are still getting a boat..Gil will moor it at the Marina,we have some nice ones here.
ReplyDeleteWe just have an old boat,but it's the Love Boat.
ReplyDeleteSpring is slow coming here also,I am ready to see things grow..I have a fence up around my property,I will plant a garden,you know I have a lot of help.
ReplyDeleteI bet Jill will love digging in the garden.Give her a little plot all to herself.She'll love it.
ReplyDeleteHow about Dad,do you think he'll take to it?
You know what they say..when you break something in ..it wears real good ,like an old pair shoes,thats what wrong people is so hook into material things...that boat holds a lot of memories...what make you both feel good is being albe to give the boys the cars..now thats love.
ReplyDeleteTomatoes grow easily and they are delicious right off the vine.Peas and beans are easy to grow and I love picking them and eating them raw.I miss having a vegetable garden.
ReplyDeleteI will give her a little plot..she has a little tea-rose plant..I think dad will like it,I will have to keep an eye on sis...she might dig a hole and cover him up to his neck...hahaha
ReplyDeleteWe've never needed much to make us happy.The sun,the water and the sky are free.Steve and family love camping.We all love the outdoors.
ReplyDeleteShe'll bury him and cover his face with honey and wait for the ants to find him.I think I saw that on a CSI.
ReplyDeleteJill will be five(5) this month,she is going on forty(40)when I was in the apartment,I plant veggies in my flower pots.
ReplyDeleteDid you have a balcony in your apartment?
ReplyDeleteI love the outdoors/camping the works..now dad and Gil love it also....I am just a old country gal,you can always find happiness with the ones you care about...
ReplyDeleteMoney is nice to have...but you need to think about other things,the market is going to hell in a hand basket...if need be I do have a trade..
Yes,it was more like a condo,we lived there nine(9) years,when Gilly Gilly born,we move into this damn old house,it's seven(7)months old...some people have been out to see it...
ReplyDeleteHave you been camping with Gil Dad and kid/s?
ReplyDeleteI once owned a dress shop before moving to LA with Ron,never been scared of working...I still sew some to keep in practice...
ReplyDeleteYou really hate that house.Women are funny like that.They know exactly what they want and need to feel at home.Men will make do with anything.
ReplyDeleteLast time we went camping I was pregnant with Gilly,we had tents,the works...we drove down to Miami,Jill loved the beach,that's where we saw Dave...
ReplyDeleteI agree with you,I actually enjoy good hard work.It gives you a sense of achievment.
ReplyDeleteI used to renovate properties that needed work.I enjoyed doing that ,working all night sometimes.We always made a profit.
I dreamed about Vix last night.I always have vivid dreams when I have a fever.She came to visit me.She had run away again and asked me to help her.I woke up before I answered her.
ReplyDeleteGil and I are from 2 different worlds...his is material things ...mine is common sense,we wasn't rich,but we wasn't poor..I was taught vales that money can't buy,a lot of people I am around just don't get it...Gil see my lifestyle is the best...and dad just love it.
ReplyDeleteI think you can feel her pain,she is a lonely and sad soul...from want dodo had up she is back home in detention...they are hoping she don't get access to a PC..
ReplyDeleteThey are gasping for straws,nothing to talk about since Vix left...saying how quiet it is on DC fan boards...Iwill never forget her..don't know what she thinks of us..I will always wish her the best...DC is not getting as much air time...shit "CASTLE is beating the hell out of him in rating.
ReplyDeleteI've never been poor,but I think a healthy hardworking lifestyle is the best.Doing things for yourself,getting close to the land to nature.
ReplyDeleteMy dad came from a wealthy family,but he preferred to make his own way in the world.He did all right for himself.He taught me a good work ethic.
No wonder Castle is beating DC.It's fresh and upbeat and has humor.It's hard to believe CSIM has any fans left.
ReplyDeleteYou know after we started this blog ...if she had told us who she was ...we would have felt the same.
ReplyDeleteIt might have turned out different,we will never know..it's sad to be out there along,I believe she is,I don't think the hubby is going to help her,to much negative talk,he is ashamed.
Oh you are so right,she is alone.All friends and family have abandoned her.She will always be a solitary person.She has so much conflict going on inside her.
ReplyDeleteI understand how her husband and daughter must feel.She left them to follow her obsession.
ReplyDeleteMy daddy owned an insurance franchise business in N.O. after mama died ,he moved it here...Two of my brothers still owned it..we had about 20 acres of land ..they all built houses on...Sis still live in the home house.Nan and hae husband live with her.
ReplyDeleteSo they all live fairly close together?That's nice to have family within walking distance.
ReplyDeleteI often wonder will she learned from her mistakes and all the hurt she cause her family,for what.
ReplyDeleteI was attracted to Gil...I was afraid of him,he had money,I was comparing him to Ron...they are as different as night and day.I realize my ex. was a boy ...now I have a man.(GIGGLES)
You couldn't help comparing Gil to Ron.That was the experience you had.Your instincts were good though.They led you in the right direction.I'm so glad you are happy.I have one daughter who is in an unhappy relationship.The rest are pretty happy.The unhappy one is sort of trapped and doesn't have the courage to leave and be on her own.
ReplyDeleteEach of my sibling got an acre of land....Sis has six acres...I have the rest....Only sis live on the land now....they sold their's.
ReplyDeleteAre you going to build your house there?
ReplyDeleteShe will find the courage,maybe it's the kids...things are so bad now ..job wise...I was ashamed ,I thought it was my fault it failed,no one in my family was divorced.I had enough and say the hell with Ron and his shit...I never messed around on him...
ReplyDeleteIt seems that you put up with his shenanigans for a long time,and gave him every chance to straighten up and fly right.He just didn't want to change.It was never your fault.Just a weak man ,something like DC.
ReplyDeleteYes it is a beautiful piece of land,we discuss it after we were married,I wanted to say in the apt.
ReplyDelete(GIGGLES) you know the apt. was furnished...he said fine...then he popped this piece of shit on me..he watched them put it up...we talked about a boat,so I guess he figured this was the perfect spot....
The two of us better turn in or we'll be cranky and bitchy tomorrow.Brian
ReplyDeletedoesn't want two Nanas around here.
I feel a little sorry for Gil.he probably thought he was doing a fantastic thing.Men are idiots sometimes.He'll like the new house so much more.Women know how to make things comfortable and functional and still make it attractive.
ReplyDeleteI cried,curse,went to AA meetings,I had reason to believe he was messing around on me,when I caught his ass in the air in my bed ,that was it..I told him she was a tramp...no way will I go to a women's house,let along get in her bed...hahaha
ReplyDeleteGod Nee,she must have been such a low life.Didn't he care what he slept with?
ReplyDeleteYes we better turn in ...Gil just saw water and this where the people with money go...I told that fool we needed all the money for our babies ..when they start college it might be 1 million a year...
ReplyDeleteSo dear friend I will say goodnite,sweet dreams.. NEE
They don't care....I beat the shit out of them both..hahahaha
ReplyDeleteGood night luv..Talk to you soon.
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