Wednesday, April 01, 2009
"KINDNESS"
We shouldn't wait for the perfect moment to give a compliment or do a favor.Moments come and go too quickly,if we wait for them,we likely to miss them altogether.We should always indulge an urge to do something nice for others.When the impulse hits,go with it.Give the compliment,do the favor,say something that will cheer a friend.
There may be times we feel like giving up,everyone has these moments...life is an adventure,and sometimes its an adventure that gets the best of us.We keep on, and we will keep on....around the next corner is something we haven't seen before....it could be something wonderful....just show a little kindness,it won't cost you anything but a smile...I will continue on this adventure of life as long as I can...if I should meet you along the way,I will share something with you...I don't want to miss the chance to be kind to those around me,so I won't....every day, I can do something to better the world,even if it's just offering a kind word to someone who needs it.I will try to make my good habits stronger than my bad habits,I will list all my habits so that I can tract how well I'm enforcing the good ones and extinguishing the bad ones, I enjoy laughing with new people...it helps me to get to know them better....
With an act of kindness I will try to be open to new friendships....maybe even unlikely friendships....Try to do an act of kindness each day,the world will be a better place...as I always say....one person at a time....But hey, that's just me.(GIGGLES)
I loved your post.Very wise,excellent advice.It's so true,kindness costs you nothing,and it spreads from one to another.The writing was really good.
ReplyDeleteKindness between people used to be easier to find.I guess people are more suspicious these days.They always think you have an ulterior motive when you do something nice for them,like you're trying to get something for yourself.
ReplyDeleteSo,how's it going honey?Life going well?Choochie humming?Gil being a good boy?
ReplyDeleteWhile I was getting a haircut today I met a ninety year old lady.What a sweetheart.She had about twenty hairs on her head but she wanted them to look perfect.She had recently fallen and hurt her back so she couldn't walk too well.She was so cheerful and charming she brought tears to my eyes.I wanted to keep her,or at least trade her for Nana.
ReplyDeleteI'll check in a bit later...Toodles!
ReplyDeleteThank you...I am doing what you said...just keep pecking away..Gil is being a good boy...the choochie got a visitor (GIGGLES)..
ReplyDeleteWEll I guess the choochie is singing a happy song today.
ReplyDeleteI watched 'Idol'.I knew she would be the one to go.She was a little weird.
I can't understand the fascination with so many tatoos.It's not a look I like.A little one on the belly or the shoulder can be cute.
ReplyDeleteHow is everyone on your end...what is Nana doing?Big weekend for the twins...I know they are excited,the weather is getting better...tornado season is almost over..sis was over..hahaha..dad told her he wanted another go at it,sis says after the baby come,at her age ...it wasn't safe.hahaha
ReplyDeleteHA!What a riot those two are.They belong together.Dad sounds like an old rascal.
ReplyDeleteYou have to keep Nana ..who would keep Brian on his toes...
ReplyDeleteI bet the little lady is a sweetheart...I love being around people like her...do you think it's the stuff they are putting in the foods?
ReplyDeleteThat transfusion boosted Nana's energy.She was really in high gear today.She's got opinions on everything and of course,her's are right and mine are all wrong.If she was in charge of the country we wouldn't have a recession.
ReplyDeleteDad is a rascal...he is so down to earth...when I met Gil and dad I imagine they was snobs...I learned you can't judge a book by it's cover.
ReplyDeleteThe party is going to be great.Can't wait. We're going to give the two cars to Josh and Jason,while they're in town.They are really happy about them.
ReplyDeleteI guess Dad approved Gil's choice of a wife.They both couldn't do without you now.
ReplyDeleteLets put Nana in charge..she will give those fools a one/two...Nana is not scared to speak her mind.
ReplyDeleteYou never answered my question...
Sammy signed up for ball hockey.Jakey was in a chess tournament all day yesterday.He won almost all the games.I don't know how he does it.I always had trouble understanding chess.Sam keeps getting love letters and emails from a girl who adores him.He's a handsome guy.
ReplyDeleteWhat question?
ReplyDeleteJosh/Jason will always do their best...when your kids do the best they can,you want to do as much as you can for them...I want you to have fun...and eat my chili.haha
ReplyDeleteYou are learning me to write..
ReplyDeleteWhen are you going to teach me to draw....(GIGGLES)
Friday I have to go to a special ceremony at the Karate dojo.The twins are getting their blue belts.Sammy is very good at karate.Jakey does amazingly well considering he's such a skinny little guy.
ReplyDeleteI know nothing about chess...both my twins are handsome...Sammy is just a hunk...not to worry..Jakey will catch up,it just taking him longer...those are some smart twins,just in different ways..
ReplyDeleteSammy use muscle...Jakey use Brian and wit...the little girl will have to wait about 2 more years.
As to the drawing.I can give you art lessons,but if you don't got it,you don't got it.
ReplyDeleteDo you like to draw?
They are going up the ladder real fast...I think Jakey will catch up,the way pre-mature babies do,he may never be as big or tall..but he will beat this thing...Jakey is not a quiter...he gives 110% and then some....you just have to love a guy like that.
ReplyDeleteAwww shit I can draw the best stick figures(GIGGLES) I can't draw a straight line.
ReplyDeleteYou can't help but love Jakey and Sammy.They are so loving and sweet.
ReplyDeleteWe noticed Jakey's teeth are starting to stick out.The poor guy is going to need braces too.He's going to look a little geeky for a few years.Sam may get the girls for a while but Jake will come into his own when he's older.
I asked Gil how was I doing with my writing...He said fine..Nan told him he didn't look...He told her the only way I was going to get better was to do it myself...
ReplyDeleteI don't draw much anymore.Too much happening in my life for a few years and my vision is pretty bad now.Like any other skill if you don't use it you lose it.
ReplyDeleteI know you can write.You are a free spirit with a great imagination and a great sense of humor and your own unique view of the world.That's all you need.The rest is just spelling.
ReplyDeleteGet him braces...let him look geeky...he has the smarts...they are beautiful boys...after the weekend...I will have to say they are handsome young men...I kmow Jaye is proud of her guys.
ReplyDeleteIf you really get serious about writing,there are creative writing courses at your local highschool or college.But,I think you can wing it.you improve in leaps and bounds.
ReplyDeleteI am the worse speller in the world,Gil gave me his small dictionary this morning hahaha,he says the same thing,he says he hope I have a room for my stuff because he will need his study..
ReplyDeleteAre you taking over his study?..HA!
ReplyDeleteI think that's great.Let him get another study.You're a writer now you need your own space.
If I ever get my family history in shape,I will just let someone sort it out...because I do a lot of jumping aroung...
ReplyDeleteYeah,you need to get it in the right order.
ReplyDeleteNan told Gil he writes well,he can help me...he says I am doing much better your help...he is not a writer...he just wants me happy,so he can poke me...
ReplyDeleteI think I'll write about my grandmother.She was pretty colorful.But first I'll do a post about fixing thin hair.
ReplyDeleteThat Gil.He has a one track mind.I like that about him.He wants his Baby to be happy.You see,when you're happy,everyone is happy.
ReplyDeleteAnd also the choochie is happy and the dangle does a happy dance.
ReplyDeleteAre you still going to make"CHILI" will Brian be eating some...tell him it have to be hot to be good..
ReplyDeleteI have had laser surgery on my left eye..doctors said I had a leakage in the back...
Jeannie you are a riot...you are truly a class act and one that is hard to follow....I would love to her about your grandmother,she sounds like fun...your dad's mom or Nana mom
ReplyDeleteOh,honey how does your eye feel now.Is it any better?Was your vision affected?That house is bad luck.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad for the stem cell research,so many people will be helped,if we can just hold on,we would have been so much farther down this road if "BUSH" wasn't such a ass...
ReplyDeleteWas it leaking blood or Ptotien gel?
ReplyDeleteTYPO...I meant protein
ReplyDeleteDo a lot of Americans think Mr Bush was an ass?
ReplyDeleteTHere is always someone like Mr Bush,trying to impede progress.They are scared of anything new.If it is new,it has to be bad.
ReplyDeleteI had it when I was pregnant with Gilly...I am border-line diabetic.I controll it with diet/exercise
ReplyDeleteI've heard that Diabetes can do a lot of nasty things to you.I pray you can keep it borderline.
ReplyDeleteMost people didn't like Bush,I think he will go down in history as being one stupid ass-hole..It was protein gel..my sight to me is the same, wearing glasses since I was 25/26
ReplyDeleteI'm struggling with another urinary infection.A low immune system can have some evil side effects too.Well girl,we sure ain't perfect specimens.Too bad.Like us or go to hell.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad your vision didn't change.Eyes are so delicate.You gotta love those lasers.You've been lasered twice.
ReplyDeleteI saw Condalisa(CORRECT SPELLING??) Rice on tv a few nights ago.She thinks the Bush administration will go down in history as heroes who fought against terrorism.
ReplyDeleteI eat anything and everything,I love veggies/fruits...I love chocolates....
ReplyDeleteLeave that chocolate alone.Seriously,there is not a lot of restriction on your diet right now is there??You just have to use your common sense,right?
ReplyDeleteRice will say anything..she was on his team...they say she like girls,Colin Powell got off his team,Bush is a user...he never made any sense to me...we are still hunting the caveman...
ReplyDeleteMy Auntie Bubs is borderline diabetic and she has such a sweet tooth,always has.She can't resist any dessert.She also likes a lot of wine.She takes a lot of chances.I think she may be addicted to sweets.
ReplyDeleteNo restrictions..just common sense,I have a little wine ,it's good for the tummy/heart...
ReplyDeleteRice likes girls,wow.I had no idea.Has she ever been married?
ReplyDeleteI am addicted to chocolate candy,I was addicted to cokes until they changed the recipe...now I just drink Tea..a cup og coffee in the morning.
ReplyDeleteNo she has never been married...I read it in the "NE" She has a cousin thats a lawyer,also name rice...who knows?
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you don't drink coke anymore.It can take the enamel off your teeth.It can dissolve metal.
ReplyDeleteI just checked Brian,he's asleep and Maxy is lying beside him on his back with his little feet in the air...so cute.
ReplyDeleteI don't want no choochie ..one is hard enough to keep clean,just the idea,someone on me with tits larger than mine.hahaha
ReplyDeleteHas a lesbian ever come on to you?
ReplyDeleteMaxy is Brian's dog all the way,I will let you get in there with them.
ReplyDeleteI'm not repulsed by them.I just don't get it.All love is good love ,I guess.
ReplyDeleteI'm a night owl girl.I'll be on my computer long after you are asleep
ReplyDeleteYes...the first time in LA the next time at the casino...I ran like hell....they was more open in LA....One told me I didn't know what I was missing....
ReplyDeleteI think you had some idea what you were missing.No strap on dangles for you.The real meat or nothing...HA!
ReplyDeleteI never judge anyone to each his own...but like you I just don't get it..any love is better than no love...I will stick with my dangle.
ReplyDeleteShe told me she could make me reach for the stars...I asked her with what...she licked her tongue out at me...I told her that was fine.she would have to finish it off with a dangle .
ReplyDeleteI think you handled her quite well.
ReplyDeleteI think Brian is homophobic.He does not like homosexuals.A lot of men are like that.They must feel threatened somehow.Maybe they think it will rub off on them.
I knew I was not going to make it with Ron in LA...we was married,so you don't fool around on each other...he became a drunk/dope head,I was ashamed to tell my daddy ,he didn't want me to marry Ron.
ReplyDeleteYou daddy must have had a feeling about Ron.It's hard to admit to your parents when you have made a mistake.
ReplyDeleteIt wasn't all a mistake.You loved him and the first few years were good.So that was a positive experience.He was just a weak man.
Gil is the same way...I don't see how men can go with each other,at least women is not sticking something up their butts.hahaha
ReplyDeleteYou didn't want to make the same mistake again so you married a very strong man the second time around.Can't fool you twice.
ReplyDeleteA gay man with hemorrhoids must be a very sad and lonely guy.
ReplyDeleteRon was a good person ,we were not to be...in so many ways he was a weak man...he would do things just to please others so he could get ahead....Now Gil,he is his own man,good man ...his family comes first and if you don't like it,he will tell you thats just hot shit.
ReplyDeleteGil's got it right.I love his attitude.Good man.
ReplyDelete(GIGGLES) Maybe thats the reason why they twist,their hemorrhoids is hurting/hanging out.hahaha
ReplyDeleteJeannie you are killing me.
When you met Gil you would never think in your wildest dreams he is a lawyer or an only child.
ReplyDeleteNow I have that picture in my mind and it won't go away.Thankyou.
ReplyDeleteAn older gay man must have a rather large anus after all that usage.Please change the topic.
ReplyDeleteDoesn't he look like a lawyer?
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure what a lawyer is supposed to look like.
(GIGGLES)You started it...
ReplyDeleteA lot of lawyers that I have met are quite tall.I guess it gives them a strong courtroom image.
ReplyDeleteI can still see a picture in my mind of a chorus line of old gay men with bare butts dancing the Macarena
ReplyDeleteHe don't act like one when he is with friends...none of that I know it all bull-shit...he's fun,I was suprise when I learn he was one..I figure he was with the rest of the gang...he was just lookiking after his dad's interest.If you don't know it ..he won't tell you.
ReplyDeleteI dare you to draw a cartoon of them and put them on the blog..hahaha
ReplyDeleteFlop..flop..flop...go the old gays "DANGLES" as they do the "MACARENA" hahaha you started it HA!!!!
ReplyDeleteGil sounds like a very nice man.Brian is a very simple guy.Down to earth.No fancy education,just what he got in technical school and knocking around the world in the army.He was so different before he got ill.I hardly know him now,but now and then,I see the old Brian shine through for a minute.He used to be a tough guy.
ReplyDeleteAfter being married to the brainiac(who was an asshole)i wasn't impressed with brilliant men anymore.
I'll hear that sound in my dreams tonight...flop...flop...flop.I'll have a nightmare about old gay men chasing me and trying to get me to apply hemorrhoid cream to their sore bums.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry I kept you up so late honey.I just realized the time.
ReplyDeleteGil and Brian would get along real well,that's one reason he 's so crazy about my family...they got their education from the school of hard knocks like Gil'S dad..
ReplyDeleteJeannie thats what mant what you have so special...the good times.
He never gave you a minute worry..
now thats love of the best kind.
Brian is still as good as gold.I wouldn't trade him.We have too much history together.Till death do us part.
ReplyDeleteGet your rest or you are going to be a mess tomorrow.
Time go by fast when you're having fun,
ReplyDelete(GIGGLES) I will say goodnite...we will talk tomorrow ,flop,flop,flop go the old men's dangles.
ReplyDeleteGOODNITE SWEETIE NEE
HA!!!Goodnight.
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